Taking risks
means trying new things and learning as you go along.
But taking
risks is never easy, when we hear the word alone negativity takes over us and
the uncertainty breeds fear.
It requires
a certain amount vulnerability; you're putting yourself out there.
There's also
a level of resiliency, the ability to get back up in the face of adversity, see
it as a learning curve and try again.
And then
there's TRUST.
It's hard to
ignore the mixed messages we send kids on a daily basis...Take more risks!
Don't take the risk!
Truth be
told, children and youth should be given the opportunity to take the
appropriate risk in order to practice and properly develop the necessary
risk-assessment skills needed throughout their life.
Take for
example during a typical day at school, we encourage students to take academic
risks, emotional and intellectual risks. But are we creating a safe environment
to do so?
Here's an
example, for those students we've unduly labeled as the 'quiet' ones, we ask that they make
every attempt to actively participate in group and class discussions, easier
said than done, right?! We administer tests, assessments, evaluations and quizzes all in an
effort to measure student performance and intelligence throughout the school
year. All quite nerve wracking.
And for most
these are met with either a failing grade or snickers and whispers amongst
peers.
Is this the
reward for risk taking? It's as though we set them up for failure.
So how can
we create safe spaces for children to take risk both at home and school?
- Make it VERY
clear that all efforts will not go unnoticed, no matter how small.
- Recognize
these as part of the process. Every effort leads to improvement.
- Model risk
taking behavior yourself, be willing to try something new and be willing
to fail.
And guide
them...while you applaud all efforts; the big and the small, make it clear that
you have all confidence in their ability to achieve mastery, be there to guide them
should they falter and celebrate the courage it takes them to take these risks.
Dale